We have all heard that our choices create our life.

While there is some truth there, it really is the choices that

others make about you that shape your life.

Think about it…we are always trying to get others to pick

us for a job, a spouse, a friendship, a business partner, or

just to win a contest.

Choices are made everyday about you, and sometimes

they just don’t seem fair!

Your spouse decides to begin a life with someone else, your

best friend chooses to end your friendship, your child decides

they like your spouse better, and your potential business

partners or partners decide to join someone else.

You can influence their choices, but they have the final

say.

When choices are made they shape someones life.

We all make choices everyday…we decide to open or

close the door to others and to opportunities.

It boils down to listening, believing and value.

First you have to get others to really listen to you.

This isn’t so easy with so much noise out there.

Now they have to make a choice to accept what you say

as truth.

Think about it, you hear many things throughout your

day, and only accept a few as truth.

You must be believable and it might take several times

before they really believe you…that is just human nature.

Last is value…what they think you can offer them.

If you get people to listen to you, and they believe you,

but they don’t see value in what you have to offer, they

will seek someone else out.

That being said…you are not for everyone and everyone

is not for you.

Keep going, keep offering what you have and the ones that

are to be with you will choose YOU!

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